A father is often confused on what he should do for his wife to make her happy during pregnancy and fulfill his role during pregnancy. So here we have put down 21 things an expectant father should do for his pregnant wife.
First off, read about the symptoms she is or will go through during this week and tell her what she can do to make herself more comfortable. In fact, if you can, do some of them yourself. This will show CARE.
Cook some meals for her like a breakfast or a snack. Bring her something which she has been craving as a SURPRISE.
Bring her some ROSES every day.
Offer her FOOT MASSAGES or BACK RUBS.
Click beautiful MATERNITY PICTURES. Buy a good camera and just do it.
Go to DINNER & DATES with her. Also plan out how many times you are gonna go on a date or honeymoon without the baby, once she/he arrives.
Indulge in her cravings a little. She would love to share it with someone.
Make a journal or frame pictures of her pregnancy and gift this to her after the baby arrives.
Try to go to SOME hospital appointments with her especially in the third trimester.
If you already have children, talk to them that Mommy needs to relax. Tell them to help her in any way possible.
Loose that Macho attitude and discuss your fears/problems etc. with her. She would really love to listen to them.
Tell her she is Beautiful Every day. (without a fail!)
Don’t tell her she needs to rest or lie down again and again.
Hold her hand/Cuddle her whenever possible.
Buy things or gift her like a pretty maternity dress or pregnancy pillow. Anything which makes her life comfortable or makes her feel beautiful.
Dry her tears when she is moody.
Be there for her especially when the due date is near. Try to take a leave.
When she tells you that This is hard/ Men will never know how it feels/ You guys are too weak to handle this, anything which basically touches your male ego, DONOTREACT. Either nod (if you are too offended to agree) or just say Yes, you are very strong. Thank you for doing this for USand OUR FAMILY.
Let her win your next argument. Or fifty to hundred after that. 😛
Don’t forget to tell us any other of your Super Husband tips that worked for you. We will add it in our list and it might help other expectant couples.